Musings
December 15th, 2008I am always intrigued to hear during a conversation how often there is an “ah ha” moment in a person’s experiences that will alter the course of their life. After many of the shows I perform, many of the adults will share such a story with me that usually centers around a relative, neighbor, or a volunteer opportunity. Of course, the children also excitedly tell me about their special pet at home, or another time when he or she was able to touch or hold a snake (usually) or even a turtle, alligator, or iguana.
These “tales” all have one very special component in common, that is, a pathway to the long term memory that mentally brings that person back to that moment in time. This is so awesome! The persons age, whether young or advanced, does not matter while he or she recalls the sights, smells and sounds of his or her experience. Many of the stories involve a vacation from decades ago, or a trip to a zoo or aquarium.
Gender does not matter. Slightly more women will tell me about a trip they themselves had or one of their children went on. Many of the trips involved an organized excursion to a facility, but many transpired while meandering about the backyard or in a nearby wooded area. Kids tracking small lizards tops the list. Sometimes either before or after my show the kids all race outside and return with a little green anole, fence lizard or skink to show me.I always accompany them back to it’s capture spot so we can release and observe it together while enjoying our new “friend” and where it can be with it’s “family”.
Let’s see, snake encounters top the list, be it a time they held a boa or python, seen the Youtube of the python swallowing an alligator, a curious dog getting its nosebit, a snake sunning itself in the yard, back porch, front steps, side of garage, or my favorite - the hunter stalking a deer, turkey, boar, etc, who looks down to find a viper laying between his feet looking up at his looming giant sized body. That one usually begins, “And there I was…”.
One of my more relished recital involves a preeteen girl, stuck at grandma’s house for a week or summer, who takes to going for walks in the woods or on the beach, wandering for hours, and then discovers some lizards or turtles and befriends them by bringing offerings of flowers, salad, and crickets. That tale often ends with a sigh and piercing eye contact as I am permitted into a more meaningful encounter that is less action packed.
Of course there is the occasional, “snake prank” usually involving a fraternity at college or an enterprising young man in a classroom, or on a scouting trip, or a washing machine episode. One time a clerk told me a story of when she was a clerk at a mall store, the back door was open for delivery, a snake wandered in. So she got a male clerk to capture it but it had disappeared in the storage room, only to be found the next day by an unsuspecting manager while opening the night deposit drop box. The snake had slithered through the mail slot and could not escape!
I would encourage you to blog about an experience of yours or of a “second hand” tale that was meaningful, life changing or just plain comical to you.